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This saying is so funny.
"If it floats, flies or fucks, it's cheaper to rent it." |
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marriage sucks.. i know one happily married couple, and around 6 miserable ones.. those are bad fucking odds
you dont have to get a contract to live with someone.. if i find a girl i love, good shit, we move in together, have kids, etc, but why do i have to get married? not like marriage will fix anything or make me love her more.. it just makes it tougher to leave and somehow people stop giving a shit once they get married |
If you don't marry and don't get kids, when you become OLD, you will feel very solitaire and when you become 70 or 80, and you are alone (because all your friends were friends to use you and your money) then you will maybe want to die, because nobody cares about you, you have no children, no wife, nothing.... so sad... nobody will remember your existence when you die because you left nothing... nobody...
Even if you are a 50 year old RETRO Hippie who didn't grow up and you still feel young, because you are drive your bike... soon or late you will be hit by depression for feeling alone... Even if you decide to travel to Thailand when you become 60, following the american dream adopted during Vietnam War of old suckers gettign young asian women... even if that... you will be a solitaire dog... remember. Man, it must be so sad to become old and not get kids and be lonely.. Now maybe when you are 20's or 30's you dont care and remember, one day you will be alone, old and sad and you will remember this... All said. . |
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With your above statement, you are making an assumption that we come into this relationship with an equal amount of assets. Im not gonna sit here and list what i have and how many businesses i currently own, that are not adult related. But i will definitely tell you that it is enough that no matter who you start to date, you will always wonder if she really likes you for you, or for what you got. 3,500 square foot House with pool and gates in LA county, 2 3K square foot fully loaded studios rental studios loaded with gear, a mainstream laser lighting company with a steady 10 year cliental, etc. If you dont try and protect what you bring into the relationship, you are a complete fool!! Quote:
She will not get "alimony". Not possible. She may get "Palimony" which i would not mind paying her. And i would pay what ever amount and then some for child support. Paying all of that would never be an issue. Breaking up all of my assets to give her half of what i worked for my whole life is where i seriously draw the line. This is why i do not believe in marriage. I do understand the rules and laws governing marriage and "Community Property" and where they are applicable. Do you Mr. Black Crayon??? I do love my girlfriend and i do not see it ending or ending badly. But at the same time my logical side forced me to have a plan in place where if things do end badly, I have an "out" that doesn't set me back with less than than i came into the relationship with.(most people do not have that kind of foresight and end up loosing their asses in divorce) SO SADD!! On a final note; If we both people come into the relation ship with the same things or nothing and they amass a moderate fortune, i would think that my girlfriend or spouse would be entitled to half. But that is clearly not my situation and those facts are not applicable to me and my situation.:2 cents: |
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LOL, some of you guys act like marriage is a fuckin' death sentence. :1orglaugh
jeez, if she annoys you that much, you can get out of it. |
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Some people have happy marriages. Perhaps even as many as 3% do. |
my experience, YES
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Marriage brings a sense of worth and stability to your life. If you can be happy, it's a very positive thing.
Having dated plenty and knowing her 6 years before we tied the knott really helped. Plus she's still in her 20's and 11 years younger than me ;) She'll be hot most of our lives. Bought her breast implants, they never get old. Before you do it, make sure these words describe your potential candidate: Patient, caring, understanding and NON confrontational. You've got it made. Lastly, having lots of money helps tons! It really does. |
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It's a fucking Piece of Paper, you can get out of it as easy as you got into it. Just marry someone with more money than you so you can take half. :thumbsup |
Asking adult webmasters about marriage? :1orglaugh
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i can rent the same boat for $80/hr.. much better to just go rent it for 1-2hrs every few weeks when you need it.. .same for airplanes.. even when you are not flying, you are paying for maintenance/hanger fees hence why if it flies, floats, or fucks, rent it |
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funny to see that nobody can discuss my point above...
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Except... you'll die a lot poorer. Lots of folks just aren't cut out for marriage. THINK it through, with your big head, before you jump. |
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it must be depressing as hell to live for nothing and die alone... So SAD and so depressing... Imagine being alone in the desert, nobody gives a fuck about you and you are 80 years old, living the rest of your days, lonely... So Sad, dude... seriously. The way of life you guys show, is great and possible when you are 20 or 30.. yeah.. you can manage to be alone and fuck girls and never marry... but you will become old eventually and you will regret what you did... . |
I have been fortunate to give birth to 3 brilliant children,,, all air signs,,,
I was blessed with one of each... Gemini, Aquarius, Libra.. they dont fight.. best of friends.. all a yr and a half apart from eachother.. air signs can be emotionally detached.. (though they will pay to put me in a home so they dont have to deal with me). Sabby:) |
Statistics show that 90% of people are not as happy as they were when they first married just 4 years after taking their vows. Scary.
If you're going to have kids, it totally makes sense to get married. Kids should have a stable home. Otherwise, I'm not sure what advantages there are except aquiring residency in a country. On a side note, in the United States if you and your spouse both make good money and file your taxes separately, you'll pay even more in taxes than if you were each single. |
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There ain't no guarantees for anything in this life, a happy marriage especially. As Eric said, unless you're sure that you can give it 100%, in all likelihood it ain't gonna play out all that well. And then... when you're 80 some years old you're gonna kick the bucket in any case. Speaking for myself, I have an excellent relationship with my kids, but when that time comes, I'd much prefer to spare them the sight. If you've ever watched someone die, you'll understand what I'm saying. |
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On the taxes, file jointly to save money. |
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Or you used Artificial insemination? . |
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not bad at all :winkwink::winkwink:
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If you are cynical enough to be putting assets in offshore accounts, creating prenups or even just laying down your position then to be quite honest you are EXPECTING the relationship to fail.
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My 1st marriage: I was 22, active military living in Germany, fell over backwards for a hot blonde (also military), and got married straight away because it was romantic. Met in Germany, married in Denmark, honeymoon in Spain.... we were young, full of fuck, and having a blast. It lasted a year. (mostly because we were military and usually not together very long in one place.) No kids. (but I have a prior son from high school days) My 2nd marriage: Occurred the day after my first divorce was final. I was literally pressured into it by the chick, and like an idiot, went through with it. It lasted 4 miserable fucking years. (3.5 years too long) 2 kids resulted. My 3rd marriage: After my second divorce, I waited 3 years before even attempting to meet anyone. After meeting her, we lived together for 10 years, had one child that died, and just got married last january. Still going strong. We ultimately married for the benefits that we couldn't legally have living together single. Period. Otherwise we'd have gone the rest of our lives together, happily unmarried. It's just a piece of paper folks. If the relationship isn't there, no piece of paper is going to help you. Marriage itself isn't fucked up.... people are fucked up. I've taken the risk and lost half my shit twice. It's really not a big deal... it's just, stuff. Stuff that can always be replaced with more stuff. |
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What the guy above this post said.
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Good thread, Eric you should post more often :)
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I have no experience with marriage myself, but I can imagine there can be some negatives about marriage.
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Screw marriage ...be a player.
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I wonder how many married men here are in the same boat but wont post cause their wives may read it :1orglaugh |
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If I would got married with my boyfriend, I would file divorcee since 10 years ago, probably daily! The word marriage scares me, thinking of the broken relationships near me. The idea of being tied up of somebody makes me insane! I want to be free, loved and to have a nice, healthy relationship, not to think everyday that I got tied up!
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Be with a girl if you want and live together but don't get married unless she has more than you
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Sure, there are tons of unhappy marriages everywhere but there is one important thing those guys complaining are forgetting: taking somenthing for granted.
Being with someone for a longer time you start to take for granted a lot of small or not so small things this person does for you. They dont bother you or you dont even think about them because you take them for granted. You get them every day and they make you feel good. But you dont take them into account when evaluation your situation and you only concentrate on things that make your marriage "unbearable". Small things wives do for you (and of course this goes in both ways of course - many women take things the husband does for granted) like cuddling, maybe a delicious meal, helping you fix a tshirt or tie a tie, taking kids to school,washing the clothes or dishes, going somewhere instead of you when you are busy, sharing the work load etc...I mean tons of things that we take for granted and only concentrate on bad things... It is easy to say marriage sux and this and that while we still take all these things for granted. I 100% agree wit saying that say "only after you lose something you realize how valuable it was to you". But when you have this you hardly see sense in this saying..That is why so many people think "I should just divorce" but when they do then they lose all the good things they took for granted, not only bad things that bothered them.And they feel completely lost..heck, I have heard many people even get suicidal although they should be happy and relived getting out of supposedly bad relationship/marriage. Other people , instead of enjoying their supposed freedom, quickly jump into another ill fated relationship because the lack of things we took for granted affect you so much. But of course, that is not in all cases - there really are so terrible marriages where the divorce is the best option. |
been with my wife since 1998... we were 16 when we met :X
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Figured since I have 15 years under my belt I would tell you guys what I told me older brother who got married a couple of years ago...remember it's a job too so make sure that you show up and pay attention to the little things.....women are funny about the little things...we love them :) No marriage is perfect and no couple is not going to have something that could become the downfall of their relationship...but someone once told me that all the things that drew you to the person in the first place will be the first things that annoy you after 25 years..lol so true ;) marry someone who is your friend too because that is going to be what lasts...I don't think I have ever wanted to divorce my friends....lol just my thoughts
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On another note, what island do you live on? |
Monogamy is not natural. That's why it usually fails.
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My first two marriages were disasters, not going into why.
The third one should of been headed for trouble from day one. I'm in porn, Eva was 21 and I was 48, Eva was from a small town in Czech and I'm from London. 13 years later we've been through the hell of the last two years and our love is stronger than it's ever been. |
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