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TylerBang 11-21-2010 10:03 AM

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Originally Posted by rawaccess (Post 17714305)
It's a choice both of us have to make. She was mature and brave by communicating her fantasy. If I simply so No and thats that, that only closes communication and will distance us. That will lead to a deterioration of the relationship.

How do I respect her openness with me while keeping the honesty flowing while still being a strong leader?

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AAAHAHAHAHA :1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

You guys are too young. You can't let her suck some guys dick and you can't trust her to not do it behind your back, because she will.

Start dating other women, keep the current one around for sex, cooking, good times..etc. Avoid jealousy and feelings if you can. Dating other women will smooth the transition. :2 cents::2 cents:

rogueteens 11-21-2010 10:27 AM

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Originally Posted by fuzzylogic (Post 17714143)
Do you have any experience with your girl who wants to fuck a stranger? I would love to hear how you manage this situation to maintain a healthy and stable relationship.

My girl has had only one other man besides me. She is young and in college. In all regards she is totally normal, healthy and living a typical young life with typical interests. But there is one thing thats different. Because she found porn at a very young age she has masturbated to it for half her life. This has introduced her to and helped her entertain sexual ideas that, for what I believe, a typical girl does not have: she wants to be fucked by two men at once.

Moreover, the idea of me watching her fuck or suck another man turns her on greatly.

We are close and we love each other, but she has a high sexual appetite.

We talked about me picking out a guy at the club that she can suck off in the car while I watch.

Do you have any experience with this? Can you shed some ideas how I should handle this in a safe and mature manor?

I'm confused by a lot of the replies in this thread, most people seem to be reacting as if the OP isn't happy with his GF sucking someone else off but it sounds like he has a Cuckold complex and is willing to play along. He's not saying that he thinks his GF is going to cheat behind his back but right there in front of him!

Its not my cup of tea but swings and round-a-bouts and all that!

Dvae 11-21-2010 10:52 AM

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Originally Posted by fuzzylogic (Post 17714143)
Do you have any experience with your girl who wants to fuck a stranger? I would love to hear how you manage this situation to maintain a healthy and stable relationship.

I stopped reading after "My girl has had only one other man besides me. She is young and in college. "

Is this a college or a monastery, an all girl college or are you just that gullable?

baddog 11-21-2010 11:38 AM

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Originally Posted by will76 (Post 17716145)
you mean you don't know at least one person who has been married and divorced several times? I bet more than 1/2 the people here from the US knows someone like that. Not making up any stories. You are so out of touch it's not funny.

Do you act this stupid on purpose or it it natural?

mrjoint 11-21-2010 11:58 AM

Sorry man I feel for you. Good thing is you both seem to have a healthy relationship where she feels comfortable to tell you that she is interested in other men. Sexual or not you need to feel comfortable about moving forward with this.

How do you feel about seeing her with other guy? I can't speak for women, but we men are territorial and possessive species , you will eventually start to feel neglected and things will begin to crack.

Believe me this will be not one time fantasy. But again each case is unique.

bronco67 11-21-2010 12:18 PM

Find another girl. That's how you manage it.

xNetworx 11-21-2010 12:46 PM

hit me up on icq :1orglaugh

will76 11-21-2010 08:47 PM

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Originally Posted by baddog (Post 17716780)
Do you act this stupid on purpose or it it natural?

you are too funny, you should take your comedy act on the road. I don't know where you come up with this material.

NoWhErE 11-21-2010 09:20 PM

Yeah... great idea.

Remember how Donny had the same idea with Belinda? Look how that turned out.

HandballJim 11-21-2010 09:32 PM

If she is serious about acting out her sexual fantasies with others out of your relationship get rid of her. She might end up giving you an STD too.

I never shared my toys as a kid, so as an adult there is no way I am sharing my woman.

CYF 11-21-2010 09:37 PM

I'd just dump her and find another girl.

CPA37710T 11-21-2010 09:41 PM

if she wants that means it already happened but shes making it official.. do the same with her.. hang out with other girls cause you've been cheated already

stocktrader23 11-21-2010 09:57 PM

There are some dumb motherfuckers in this thread. :1orglaugh

xxweekxx 11-21-2010 10:17 PM

lol u guys are funny.. its simple, dump the girl

like i said, ive fucked a lot of girls LIKE YOURS.. the girl wants to experience some cock, shes too sheltered.. sooner or later she'll fuck another guy behind ur back

like i said Before, i meet girls like yours everytime and whenever a girl tells me oh ive only had one bf, i know my chances of fucking her are 90%

not saying every girl that has not experienced more than 1 or 2 cocks is a cheater.. im just saying that a girl who has experienced one cock AND IS telling u that she wants to experience more is a guaranteed cheater.. send her over to my town for a weekend and i bet i'll fuck the shit out of her.lol its too easy

xxweekxx 11-21-2010 10:18 PM

and baddog is kinda right, ppl need to quit getting married earlier.. u got the rest of ur lives why the fuck would u do it at 20-25.. most ppl dont even know what they want then..

I know for sure the type of girls i wanted at 18 are not the type i want now at 25yrs old.. so if i married my high school sweetheart we would have gotten a divorce by now..

at a young age u care about hot girls, great sex, etc.. when u get older i think u start caring about reliability, motherhood skills, etc

harvey 11-21-2010 10:47 PM

wow, some opinions here... you'd think that for people dealing with morally questionable content (for bourgeois society standards) people would be more open minded, but guess many are as rigid as a Lutheran pastor.

First thing first: why most people here thinks it's OK to fuck any random girl, but that girl hasn't the same right as you? Just FYI, the more chauvinist you go, the more you'll be cheated. News flash.

Now, to the OP: your first mistake is to ask for opinions in this board. Or any other board. It seems you have a healthy relationship with your girl and she trusts you enough to be open about her fantasies. I won't tell you to let her do that or to let her not. By principle, I'm opposed to the whole idea of a person belonging to me, and be assured that she'll do what she want anyway at some point. Maybe even backing up, sometimes fantasies are cool as long as they're just fantasies, when they turn real many people gets scared.

So I'd tell you to just talk to her. Find a comfort zone where you both trust the decision you make is the best for both of you, whether she goes with another man or if she understands why that situation is uncomfortable for you. If needed, talk to a psychologist o find professional advice. Remember, your happiness, your life, your relationship is way too important to trust other people you don't even know face to face (even mine). Do the right, smart thing. Maybe you'll discover her fantasy gives a boost to your relationship. Maybe she'll understand why her fantasy should be kept strictly as that.

But whatever you do, be as firm, calm and objective as possible, but don't treat her as a belonging: 99% chances you'll end sad, alone and hating the world wishing you could turn back history.

Sid70 11-21-2010 11:03 PM

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rawaccess 11-22-2010 02:26 AM

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Originally Posted by will76 (Post 17716596)
you should ask her if she would be ok if you sucked the guys cock and she watched.

lmao we both know that girls who like masculine men would be so turned off by that. Now, asking her to pick out a girl for me to fuck while she watched is only even. But trying to get even with her is childish and will serve no end except hasten the end.

rawaccess 11-22-2010 02:40 AM

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Originally Posted by rogueteens (Post 17716701)
I'm confused by a lot of the replies in this thread, most people seem to be reacting as if the OP isn't happy with his GF sucking someone else off but it sounds like he has a Cuckold complex and is willing to play along. He's not saying that he thinks his GF is going to cheat behind his back but right there in front of him!

Its not my cup of tea but swings and round-a-bouts and all that!

I think you are the only one who picked up on my willingness to explore this... But cuckold, no.. I dont want to be walked over or taken advantage of.

I do want to learn, however, and I have never been in a situation like this.

I have been in a situation with a girl who grew distance and angry with me and wanted to see other people. But that is not what is happening here. We still have a great deal of closeness and intimacy, but she wants the porn fantasy. It's a contradiction!

My kink is not cuckold but voyeurism and exhibitionism. I enjoy watching people have sex in person. I enjoy having sex with others watching me.

Can I take advantage of this girl to satisfy my kinks and hers yet still keep the relationship real, honest and intimate? According to most the replies, no.

rawaccess 11-22-2010 02:44 AM

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Originally Posted by harvey (Post 17717711)
wow, some opinions here... you'd think that for people dealing with morally questionable content (for bourgeois society standards) people would be more open minded, but guess many are as rigid as a Lutheran pastor.

First thing first: why most people here thinks it's OK to fuck any random girl, but that girl hasn't the same right as you? Just FYI, the more chauvinist you go, the more you'll be cheated. News flash.

Now, to the OP: your first mistake is to ask for opinions in this board. Or any other board. It seems you have a healthy relationship with your girl and she trusts you enough to be open about her fantasies. I won't tell you to let her do that or to let her not. By principle, I'm opposed to the whole idea of a person belonging to me, and be assured that she'll do what she want anyway at some point. Maybe even backing up, sometimes fantasies are cool as long as they're just fantasies, when they turn real many people gets scared.

So I'd tell you to just talk to her. Find a comfort zone where you both trust the decision you make is the best for both of you, whether she goes with another man or if she understands why that situation is uncomfortable for you. If needed, talk to a psychologist o find professional advice. Remember, your happiness, your life, your relationship is way too important to trust other people you don't even know face to face (even mine). Do the right, smart thing. Maybe you'll discover her fantasy gives a boost to your relationship. Maybe she'll understand why her fantasy should be kept strictly as that.

But whatever you do, be as firm, calm and objective as possible, but don't treat her as a belonging: 99% chances you'll end sad, alone and hating the world wishing you could turn back history.

Thank you.

2intense 11-22-2010 02:52 AM

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Originally Posted by blindzior (Post 17716200)

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:thumbsup

rawaccess 11-22-2010 03:05 AM

What I learned from this thread is not that people here are closed-minded, but rather guys do not want a girl dominating them and taking advantage of them. It may appear the girl wants to see how far she can push me, how far she can abuse me, and how far her leash is. Because I am in the relationship I do not see that, but maybe that is whats really going on. Maybe she is trying to gain power over me.

In that case, it is wise, as one person posted, to keep cash and keys in a tight pocket.

As the Asian guy said on the first page, I have to gain power back over, dominate her with my erection her so she becomes cock crazy for only me.

stocktrader23 11-22-2010 03:40 AM

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Originally Posted by rawaccess (Post 17717951)
What I learned from this thread is not that people here are closed-minded, but rather guys do not want a girl dominating them and taking advantage of them. It may appear the girl wants to see how far she can push me, how far she can abuse me, and how far her leash is. Because I am in the relationship I do not see that, but maybe that is whats really going on. Maybe she is trying to gain power over me.

In that case, it is wise, as one person posted, to keep cash and keys in a tight pocket.

As the Asian guy said on the first page, I have to gain power back over, dominate her with my erection her so she becomes cock crazy for only me.

Girls are just like guys. The guys in this thread talking shit dream of the day their woman wants them to fuck another girl but talk shit if it's the other direction. I think porn attracts a lot of insecure, nerdy shitheads and you're seeing the results of that.

Angry Jew Cat - Banned for Life 11-22-2010 03:46 AM

Just roll the dice and see what fucking happens. Try something new. If shit goes wrong, walk it off and find a new bitch. Odds are the relationship isn't going to last forever anyhow. :2 cents:

Stacks Banned for Life 11-22-2010 04:27 AM

Jewcat says something right on here for once lol.

It seems most ppl on this forum can't comprehend your girl's fetish so they don't understand it and they over react.

It's simple, if this is her fetish and your into to it too, than go ahead with it. If you think you will not get jealous vise versa, should be pretty cool for you guys.

Out of all the ppl on here knocking this, you telling me you never ran a train on a girl before? Basically the same kind of shit, just replace random chick with your spouse. I am actually surprised by most of the answers on this thread.

We work in the porn biz, discussions on different niches and fetishes is business as usual imo.

Angry Jew Cat - Banned for Life 11-22-2010 04:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Stacks (Post 17718052)
Jewcat says something right on here for once

wtf are you talking about? i'm always right...

Stacks Banned for Life 11-22-2010 04:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Angry Jew Cat (Post 17718056)
wtf are you talking about? i'm always right...

well one thing is for sure, your usually funny :) even if u dont say something funny, ur avatar is the lulz

Pornopat 11-22-2010 04:59 AM

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Originally Posted by blindzior (Post 17716200)

oh no he didn't!!!!
lmao

From what movie is that? I need to see it!

BlackCrayon 11-22-2010 05:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by harvey (Post 17717711)
wow, some opinions here... you'd think that for people dealing with morally questionable content (for bourgeois society standards) people would be more open minded, but guess many are as rigid as a Lutheran pastor.

First thing first: why most people here thinks it's OK to fuck any random girl, but that girl hasn't the same right as you? Just FYI, the more chauvinist you go, the more you'll be cheated. News flash.

Now, to the OP: your first mistake is to ask for opinions in this board. Or any other board. It seems you have a healthy relationship with your girl and she trusts you enough to be open about her fantasies. I won't tell you to let her do that or to let her not. By principle, I'm opposed to the whole idea of a person belonging to me, and be assured that she'll do what she want anyway at some point. Maybe even backing up, sometimes fantasies are cool as long as they're just fantasies, when they turn real many people gets scared.

So I'd tell you to just talk to her. Find a comfort zone where you both trust the decision you make is the best for both of you, whether she goes with another man or if she understands why that situation is uncomfortable for you. If needed, talk to a psychologist o find professional advice. Remember, your happiness, your life, your relationship is way too important to trust other people you don't even know face to face (even mine). Do the right, smart thing. Maybe you'll discover her fantasy gives a boost to your relationship. Maybe she'll understand why her fantasy should be kept strictly as that.

But whatever you do, be as firm, calm and objective as possible, but don't treat her as a belonging: 99% chances you'll end sad, alone and hating the world wishing you could turn back history.

yeah, i guess what a lot of the guys here are saying here to the ladies is that if your guy wants a threesome, you better dump him because he has either already cheated or will at some point.

PornDB 11-22-2010 06:08 AM

Dont forget your camera :)

marlboroack 11-22-2010 06:15 AM

Do what you think is right. :pimp

Miguel 11-22-2010 11:22 AM

I can grant you access to SellYourGF.com and you can check how it looks like from third party angle:)

tranza 11-22-2010 12:42 PM

Dump her..... Seriously....

Miguel 11-22-2010 02:05 PM

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Originally Posted by tranza (Post 17719371)
Dump her..... Seriously....

She doesn't want to cheat on him. It's different thing... Guy dates with nymph:)

rawaccess 11-22-2010 04:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Miguel (Post 17719611)
She doesn't want to cheat on him. It's different thing... Guy dates with nymph:)

Exactly. How do I handle a nympho to keep the relationship solid?

CYF 11-22-2010 05:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Angry Jew Cat (Post 17718013)
Just roll the dice and see what fucking happens. Try something new. If shit goes wrong, walk it off and find a new bitch. Odds are the relationship isn't going to last forever anyhow. :2 cents:

some good advice here, and OP seems up to try it.


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