When you first meet a girl, how long before you call.
 

This topic is as old as the sun but....

I just met a girl, she cute.

1) I have her number and email. Which do I use? Call or email?
2) How long before call/email?

As I get older, I have less concern about the "wait 3 days" rule for calling - I just don't give a shit. But, since I am still single, maybe I should just ask a high quality studs what they think before I jump the gun.

Since there isn't a high quality stud within 2,000 miles of this forum I though I would ask a bunch of lame ass webmasters instead. This is where you come in :-P

Do I adhere to the 3 day rule? Should I email or call?

Screw that 3 day rule. Thats a rule for girls calling guys back. If guys dont strike when the iron is hot, another guy will. Call now.

If she's hot, make her wait at least 3 hours.

No sense coming off as desperate.


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Quality man quality ! LOL

I say call her whenever... No need to wait a set amount of time... After all, as you say, your single, and if she is 'The One' then she wont say no, because you called her 20 mins short of some non existent time schedual :) :2 cents:

If ts meant to be... It will be... If not... Plenty more fish etc :)

Good luck !

You already lose when you give a fuck what a woman thinks. Half these chicks think they are princesses and are used to having dudes kiss their ass.

fuck what they think, you call, tell them you want to stick it in them and its over.

never be concerned with what a woman thinks. or any bullshit rules they try to make other people play by.

i am trying a new test today i just msged this chick telling her to stop playing hard to get because i want to stick it in her. ill tell you my results.

Yes, 3 hours rule much better than 3 days one :thumbsup

a day is good, but setup a date for a few days from now, dont ask for a date the same day... keep her hangin a little!... then she might put out on the first date :)

Dude, what are you, 12? This ain't High School man! Call her NOW - right NOW - and tell her you liked meeting her and want to take her out for coffee. Grow a pair. DO IT!

Jeez Louise.

You said you just met her. How did you meet her? In person or online? How much conversation did you have with her already? Did she contact you or did you contact her (in other words, who initiated the two of you meeting)?

Since you've had some correspondence already you should have the available information to answer your question. A lot of communication takes place without us even being aware of it. This is the key to playing the game. Playing the game does not just mean getting laid. And, make no mistake about it, it is a proverbial "game". We're all hardwired that way. It's up to you to take the game away.

So, answer the above and I will give you my two cents. Also, what did you talk about already? Trivial stuff or in depth stuff? How long did you meet/talk to her for already?

If you look like.....

Steve Buscemi -- call that same day and hope some miracle happens

Kevin James -- wait 2 days

George Clooney -- don't call. She'll call you.

In all seriousness, even better is a harmless text message not asking to meet or anything. Just ask her how her day is going. If she replies, don't answer back. Then send another a week later. Make her wonder why you're not slobbering at her feet like other desperate tools.

then call her out of the blue a couple weeks later. She'll be happy you called, because those texts have been nagging her thoughts for the last 3 weeks.

gfy has high quality studs?
you should be asking GIRLS

I guess gfy does have 1 quality stud after all :)

It's more studly to know that if a girl wants you badly enough, she'll contact you eventually.

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Originally Posted by MisterPeabody (Post 17090015) Dude, what are you, 12? This ain't High School man! Call her NOW - right NOW - and tell her you liked meeting her and want to take her out for coffee. Grow a pair. DO IT! Jeez Louise.

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Originally Posted by bronco67 (Post 17090050) even better is a harmless text message not asking to meet or anything. Just ask her how her day is going. If she replies, don't answer back. Then send another a week later. Make her wonder why you're not slobbering at her feet like other desperate tools. then call her out of the blue a couple weeks later. She'll be happy you called, because those texts have been nagging her thoughts for the last 3 weeks.

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This is a good way to NOT get a date with her, she would have been snapped up by some other guy within the next month. A guy who didn't play games.

Don't talk about this to people. Keep it nice and personal, the more you hype it the worse odds you will have.

Call at the next reasonable appropriate time you feel might be a good time to reach her, 3 day rule is a dinosaur.

call her, ask her what you have to ask and see result god damn

No matter what, girls loved to be chased as well as made to wait. If she's someone you're interested in knowing and don't want to just hook up with, send her a text later in the day (after 6 but before 8pm), that way if she's been thinking about you, she's been wanting you to connect.

Something simple like, "Got plans for lunch tomorrow?" Text is way less intrusive and can give you more insight than a call, imo.

Yeah, that is right. Do it now and forget about stupid rules.

Girls play games and they love it, even when they aren't aware of it.

I didn't make this rule -- its just the way it is.

text her now!! and after day just call... and screw 3d rule!!

Watch this

Well, girls are allowed to play 'games' because they're...wait for it, wait for it....GIRLS. Be a MAN and be what EVERY WOMAN WANTS: a confident MAN who goes out and gets what he wants. In this case, the girl in question.

But hey, be a little teenage girl with your text message games and I'll continue fucking two-three women a day.

Carry on.

not sure how that pertains to what we're talking about, but its pretty funny.

It's kind of a sociopathic way to look at love, though.

I love my wife, but I'm sure as fuck not going to get worked up and kill someone over her.

Well, I was always the guy that made initial contact, and waited for them to make the next move. But then again, I'm better than average looking -- so that shit worked for me(when I was single).

I gave Eva my card and told her to phone me.

But to be honest it was the morning after the night before. :winkwink:

She phoned. :thumbsup

I used to always leave one full day before I called her.
So if I got a number on saturday night I would call monday.
Also I prefer sending a txt than calling or email.

I hear ya bro - that works for me, too - but overall, for me, that's a relatively passive/pussy way to go through life IMHO. Of course, if you're now married then it's all moot, right? :)

2 days; if you want to try and push 'cute and really like her' pitch, call the next day and act real sheepish

He should already have grabbed her on the first meeting.

Only you can be the judge of this. You have to remember how she acted when she gave you the number. Did she give you the number without her realizing she did? Or was she excited when she gave it to you and did she say you better call me? A lot of times girls are just giving the number because they can't say no. If she was in it to win it, call her in 2 days. If she was not, do not call her.

Mr. Romance

Call her up when you are really hammered and talk about how there are so many hot chicks at the bar.

after the bar text her and ask her if she wants to come over and suck on your man meat.

if she doesnt respond then the next day txt her asking her "wtf he problem is".

then wait 3 days and send her a txt during work hours asking "what she is wearing". then ask if she wants to get drunk.

1 Day Max

When I get a girls number while she is standing there I text her so that she has my number and I tell her...."I really would like to see you again soon but I am not going to be like these other assholes who call you all the time and turn into stalkers....if you really would like to see me again call me and we can grab a bite or something."

This has NEVER not worked for me and it helps establish the relationship early. I have been dating my current girl for a few years and now when she says "Why dont you ever call me?" I say "I told you the first time I met you that I wasnt going to call you" ;)

--T

I just called her and she is going out with me, said she gave her number to some guy and he never called . . . I will tell you how MY Friday night was Sunday :1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

When did you get her number? Like an hour ago?

I would wait at least a minimum of a day. You don't want to come off as a desperate psycho.

look in her window and knock. if she lets you in she likes you.

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I just call and ask her what she wants for breakfast