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Old 11-18-2011, 11:18 AM   #51
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I can honestly say that if I manage to escape my marriage with my cojones intact I will absolutely NEVER get married again.

The only small advantage to marriage is filing taxes. Other than that is is a nightmare if you like making your own decisions, answer to yourself and have any integrity you want to keep.

At BEST marriage is a constant state of compromises, making decisions by a committee of two and being nailed down by someone who thinks they should know every little move you make.

At worst...........let's not even go there. RUN! Run while you can. That's my absolute best and honest advice.

Don't misunderstand. I don't hate my wife nor am I bitter. I just see clearly now how entangled I am legally to another person and getting out will be costly to say the least.
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Old 11-18-2011, 11:27 AM   #52
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Good because plenty of North American men look for other qualities in a partner for life.
This is why I will avoid USSR mentality !
It's popular in our parts as well, but it's not just the men.. women want something good to look at, even over other issues. He's a drunk? He's abusive? Doesn't have a job? Yeah but he's tall and has blue eyes.. haha

Men are just as bad, it's why divorce is so common.
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Old 11-18-2011, 11:31 AM   #53
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Old 11-18-2011, 11:59 AM   #54
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Old 11-18-2011, 02:56 PM   #55
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Old 11-18-2011, 03:34 PM   #56
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then that would be the majority of people since the divorce rate is over 50% - which makes your supposition that it's just a matter of finding the 'right person' not very realistic. there's much more to the high divorce rate.
I also believe over 50% of the population is stupid and incompetent, so I have a skewed perspective You could also say over 50% of people are in debt, upside down in their mortgages, spending beyond their means, stuck in careers they hate, etc... Doesn't mean it's smart or right.

Every time someone complains about their past marriage or their divorce, you can usually trace back to the point where they should have realized they shouldn't have married this person. ie. "she was a crazy bitch", "she won't let me go out with the guys". People go into marriage with expectations that their partners will somehow change after getting married. People also get stuck in these relationships that they don't end because it's easier to stay together, and then years down the road they decide to get married just because they've been living together for 5 years so why not.
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Old 11-18-2011, 03:44 PM   #57
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Old 11-18-2011, 04:34 PM   #58
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I was married 10 years and currently enjoying an insane divorce....
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Old 11-18-2011, 04:37 PM   #59
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Old 11-18-2011, 05:03 PM   #60
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You guys dipped your pole in the wrong water.....I am loving it!!! Do not marry out of love, marry because the space between the two of you is improved sharing said space. I could not fathom living any other way! Kinda like trying to mix oil and water, you never will. But in the case you find to components that will meld together it only takes time to learn how to build on compatibility. Each to there own. I have met said SHEDEVILS and ran like my ass was on fire, but in the end, sometimes this shit works, real well
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Old 11-18-2011, 05:09 PM   #61
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I voted marriage. BUT it has to be to the right person, NOT marriage for the sake of not being alone, or you have reached that "certain age" where you should be married by now, or getting married to please your family, or wanting a "housekeeper", etc. But if you have found someone you can see spending the rest of your life with happily, then go for it!

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Old 11-18-2011, 05:23 PM   #62
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Old 11-18-2011, 07:07 PM   #63
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Old 11-18-2011, 07:38 PM   #64
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I think the trick is to marry a bisexual woman who believes in polygamy. I'm much happier being married than I was being single...but if I ever found myself single again, that's what I'd do.
You are married, yet still think you would want two or more?

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People that complain about being married obviously aren't married to the right person...
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Dont get married until you live with your girlfriend for a while and are absolutely sure she wont bother the crap out of you.
Define a while. I lived over a year with both of my [eventual] ex-wives.

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The good thing being married:

One day you wake up as old man - alone, no one around - sometimes the silence can be too loud.
How do you know that? And a sevensome? You would want to share a chick with that many guys?

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I have been married / divorced / and married again. I guess that shows what I think is better for me.
married / divorced / married / divorced /gf / single /gf / single / gf

Man, hard to say when laid out like that.

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seems easier to just buy the ring?
Cheaper too. But he is right, it works.
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Old 11-18-2011, 07:57 PM   #65
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Old 11-18-2011, 07:58 PM   #66
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get yourself 2-3 good regular GFE superwhores, pay them well, treat them well, and you end up with a much more honest and rewarding situation than marriage with no stress. you have a mutually benifical relationship sans manipulation because you are paying her, alleviating expectations and bullshit, which allows you to have an even deeper friendship/relationship/fuckbuddy thing going on than you can ever possibly hope for with a wife that expects you to give all and literally lay your life down for her in the name of 'love'.
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Old 11-18-2011, 10:07 PM   #67
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I think "being alone" gets way too bad a rap. So many fear it yet in the past I've found that it's really not something to be feared.

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But it always seems to be the ones who fear the dreaded "being alone" the most that need it the most for some reason. Because they're the ones constantly seeking their happiness and validation from others when they really need to find a way to be okay with themselves first.
Definitely. Those who are afraid of being alone end up bring jealous and insecure in their relationships.
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Old 11-18-2011, 10:30 PM   #68
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Wonderful post man!! Very inspiring. The trouble sometimes is finding the "right person", especially when you are in the porn biz. "What do you do?" "Oh, I sell porn on the Internet....hey wait, where ya goin'?" LOL

Share the details of how you found your one in a million? Was it NLP?
To "hook up" with a lot of women, to get the dates, I found a book called "The Game" useful and it mentioned NLP, actually.

I needed to be able to recognize my one in a million, and quickly and decisively recognize those candidates who while attractive, were not my one in a million.
First, I was told to make a list, on paper, with three parts:

What elements do I want in a relationship? honesty, mutual respect, etc.
What do I want to get out of it; what's the payoff? A supportive partner, drama free sex, whatever.
What kind of woman do I want to be with? Easy going (not a drama queen), cheerful, etc.

Reviewing the list every few days, BE the things on the list, I was taught. My list mentioned honesty a couple times, so I had to go out and be rigorously honest. I wanted a reasonable sex life. Seeking a woman who was neither a nympho nor frigid, I proceeded to be reasonable about sex, not being a perv myself.

While practicing these things with the help of people I respect, I looked at every woman who came within ten feet and either eliminated them right away (not single, way too young, etc) or said hello to them. Looking for one on a million, I needed to take notice of a lot of women and say hello to many. Most revealed something within two minutes, such as by screaming at their kid as we talked, which ended the conversation.

While practicing being honest, supportive, respectful, joyful, etc. I attracted a woman who was the same (but more so). Now we are honest, supportive, respectful, and joyful with each other.

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Old 11-20-2011, 07:16 PM   #69
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Old 11-20-2011, 07:33 PM   #70
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Mine's nice enough to let me stay at home.

Bachelor pad, my place, for the next 2 hours.
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