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Rochard · 08-21-2014, 03:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jel

I guess I'm old fashioned. 100% trust. No trust = I'm out of there anyway. keylogging and shit - wtf lol

I used to be like that too and I was very quick to walk away - my wife knew this and knows I don't put up with much bullshit. But after twenty years.... It's a different story.

Jel · 08-21-2014, 04:01 PM

^ you're misunderstanding me. I have no issues whereby I don't trust whoever I'm with 100%... I have no issues where I'd feel the need to keylog/spy/etc... I have no issues where I couldn't talk to the person about my concerns instead of keylogging/shit

Being with someone for 20 years, having concerns - I get that. Saying nothing, but instead creating a scenario(s) in my own head that got to the point where I started doing that - I totally don't get that. Then to find out out it was indeed just stuff in my own head, in itself proving I had a

a) lack of balls to talk to the person I love
ii) lack of communication skills to start with

I definitely wouldn't post it on a message board.

The last part was just me being dickish, but still... without trust + honest communication, it isn't a relationship in my book. Saying that, I realise every person is different - I do actually get the 'why' of you doing it, even if it is a million miles away from what I'd do.

Life's rich tapestry, and all that shit

dicknipples · 08-21-2014, 04:36 PM

Along with what Jel said, now you're causing your SO to lose trust in you.

That's not healthy.

xNetworx · 08-21-2014, 08:39 PM

All whores but mom

slapass · 08-21-2014, 09:56 PM

I always wonder how they don't know? If your attention span is that short maybe she isn't the person for you.

08-21-2014, 04:01 PM	#52
Jel Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 6,904	^ you're misunderstanding me. I have no issues whereby I don't trust whoever I'm with 100%... I have no issues where I'd feel the need to keylog/spy/etc... I have no issues where I couldn't talk to the person about my concerns instead of keylogging/shit Being with someone for 20 years, having concerns - I get that. Saying nothing, but instead creating a scenario(s) in my own head that got to the point where I started doing that - I totally don't get that. Then to find out out it was indeed just stuff in my own head, in itself proving I had a a) lack of balls to talk to the person I love ii) lack of communication skills to start with I definitely wouldn't post it on a message board. The last part was just me being dickish, but still... without trust + honest communication, it isn't a relationship in my book. Saying that, I realise every person is different - I do actually get the 'why' of you doing it, even if it is a million miles away from what I'd do. Life's rich tapestry, and all that shit

08-21-2014, 04:36 PM	#53
dicknipples Formerly known as Lensman Industry Role: Join Date: May 2014 Location: Chicago, IL Posts: 654	Along with what Jel said, now you're causing your SO to lose trust in you. That's not healthy.

08-21-2014, 08:39 PM	#54
xNetworx So Fucking What Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Whore Island Posts: 14,445	All whores but mom

08-21-2014, 09:56 PM	#55
slapass Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Earth Posts: 14,622	I always wonder how they don't know? If your attention span is that short maybe she isn't the person for you.