Should The Mother Inlaw Stay Over?? - GoFuckYourself.com

Storm_Tracker · 01-28-2010, 08:54 PM

We are having our 1st baby within the next 2 weeks or so. My wife would like to have
her mom over and stay with us approx 3 weeks until she gets into her daily routine.

The other day I was over the mom inlaws and I voiced my opinion stating she
can stay with us but no longer than 3 weeks I was very clear but forth coming about this.

I was not rude to her I stated the facts about privacy etc... I said this in a nice professional way.

Today my wife said " Ohhh I don't know if my mom wants to stay anymore cuz you dont want her " lol!!

Was i wrong here people? I like my mom inlaw but at times she can be annoying always repeating the same stuff over and over and always wants to check out what your doing.

Heck I can't even pound one out now when she is here

I understand from my wife's point its our 1st baby and she needs help but does she need to stay past 3 weeks????

This is question ... PLEASE HELP WITH THIS.!!

Spunky · 01-28-2010, 09:03 PM

Get a lock on the office door/spare room.I think you'll be needing all the help you can get in the next few weeks

baddog · 01-28-2010, 09:04 PM

If she can't take care of things on her own after three weeks she will never be able to. I liked my M-i-L and there is no way in hell I would let her stay with us for three weeks. I think she was there for a week.

I don't understand why you think you can't have sex while she is there though. Do you live in a one-room apartment? If so, she can come visit, no sleep overs.

*edit* Hold on, she isn't already there, is she?

baddog · 01-28-2010, 09:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Spunky

Get a lock on the office door/spare room.I think you'll be needing all the help you can get in the next few weeks

Have you ever had kids? They aren't that tough to figure out.

Storm_Tracker · 01-28-2010, 09:08 PM

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Originally Posted by baddog

If she can't take care of things on her own after three weeks she will never be able to. I liked my M-i-L and there is no way in hell I would let her stay with us for three weeks. I think she was there for a week.

I don't understand why you think you can't have sex while she is there though. Do you live in a one-room apartment? If so, she can come visit, no sleep overs.

*edit* Hold on, she isn't already there, is she?

No we live in a home with 1 spare bedroom there is room for her here ... I'm not worried about having sex ... the wife won't be ready to have sex for at least 6 weeks bro

she is going to have the baby in 2 weeks or so.

baddog · 01-28-2010, 09:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Storm_Tracker

No we live in a home with 1 spare bedroom there is room for her here ... I'm not worried about having sex ... the wife won't be ready to have sex for at least 6 weeks bro

she is going to have the baby in 2 weeks or so.

There are these things called blowjobs. Keeps them from getting pregnant too.

Good luck, it isn't that hard.

candyflip · 01-28-2010, 09:22 PM

My girl's mother died three weeks before the birth of our first child. I'd have killed to have her here for as long as she'd have wanted to stay.

Waddymelon · 01-28-2010, 09:23 PM

Well if she isnt there, you're not gonna be getting much sleep. And if she is there, well, then she is there.

Man you're fucked either way.

Spunky · 01-28-2010, 09:32 PM

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Originally Posted by baddog

Have you ever had kids? They aren't that tough to figure out.

Almost quite a few times.I consider myself lucky.I would consider this though
High definition peephole with wide angle
- Multi-directional connecting-rod lockpin
- Upper and lower side lockpin
- Special burglarproof brand lock,inner thermal-protection material
- Stainless steel doorsill(optional),Stainless steel hinge

Storm_Tracker · 01-28-2010, 09:38 PM

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Originally Posted by candyflip

My girl's mother died three weeks before the birth of our first child. I'd have killed to have her here for as long as she'd have wanted to stay.

Sorry to hear that ... man now I feel like a piece of shit

VikingMan · 01-29-2010, 02:47 AM

You WANT you mother in law to stay with you after the baby is born for as long as possible if:

1. she makes you food
2. she cleans
3. does a really good job at #1
4. she changes diapers often (preferably both hers and the baby's)

In other words, put that woman to WORK

tranza · 01-29-2010, 06:57 AM

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Originally Posted by *******

You WANT you mother in law to stay with you after the baby is born for as long as possible if:

1. she makes you food
2. she cleans
3. does a really good job at #1
4. she changes diapers often (preferably both hers and the baby's)

In other words, put that woman to WORK

That is the point

Jensen · 01-29-2010, 07:11 AM

I would take all the help I could get. What are you doing on GFY btw? Get some sleep, go see a movie, go to a restaurant, god knows when you can do that again with no babysitters etc to worry about.

Storm_Tracker · 01-29-2010, 07:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by *******

You WANT you mother in law to stay with you after the baby is born for as long as possible if:

1. she makes you food
2. she cleans
3. does a really good job at #1
4. she changes diapers often (preferably both hers and the baby's)

In other words, put that woman to WORK

martinsc · 01-29-2010, 07:29 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by *******

You WANT you mother in law to stay with you after the baby is born for as long as possible if:

1. she makes you food
2. she cleans
3. does a really good job at #1
4. she changes diapers often (preferably both hers and the baby's)

In other words, put that woman to WORK

Got Porn? · 01-29-2010, 07:55 AM

My mother in law stayed with us for 2 weeks after we had our first baby and she was a big help. You do need to set boundaries and determining the length of her stay may have been a good idea but you went about it the wrong way. You should have asked how long she wanted to stay for not tell her in a professional way that she is only welcome for 3 weeks. I can certainly see how that would offend her.

We asked my mother in law if she would take care of cooking, laundry, and grocery shopping while she stayed with us so we could concentrate on the baby. She was fine with that but I don't think she would have done so if we did not specifically ask her before she stayed with us.

HerPimp · 01-29-2010, 08:03 AM

Have her take the baby over to her mothers house, you need to focus on building the nest.

Achmed's Wife Halimah · 01-29-2010, 08:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Storm_Tracker

We are having our 1st baby within the next 2 weeks or so. My wife would like to have
her mom over and stay with us approx 3 weeks until she gets into her daily routine.

The other day I was over the mom inlaws and I voiced my opinion stating she
can stay with us but no longer than 3 weeks I was very clear but forth coming about this.

I was not rude to her I stated the facts about privacy etc... I said this in a nice professional way.

Today my wife said " Ohhh I don't know if my mom wants to stay anymore cuz you dont want her " lol!!

Was i wrong here people? I like my mom inlaw but at times she can be annoying always repeating the same stuff over and over and always wants to check out what your doing.

Heck I can't even pound one out now when she is here

I understand from my wife's point its our 1st baby and she needs help but does she need to stay past 3 weeks????

This is question ... PLEASE HELP WITH THIS.!!

Halimah say you're an idiot & only think about yourself

Achmed's Wife Halimah · 01-29-2010, 08:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Storm_Tracker

Heck I can't even pound one out now when she is here

Quote:

Originally Posted by Storm_Tracker

I'm not worried about having sex ... the wife won't be ready to have sex for at least 6 weeks bro

she is going to have the baby in 2 weeks or so.

so you're worried about jerking off VS her helping with a new born child?

Jensen · 01-29-2010, 08:29 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Got Porn?

My mother in law stayed with us for 2 weeks after we had our first baby and she was a big help. You do need to set boundaries and determining the length of her stay may have been a good idea but you went about it the wrong way. You should have asked how long she wanted to stay for not tell her in a professional way that she is only welcome for 3 weeks. I can certainly see how that would offend her.

agree

Achmed's Wife Halimah · 01-29-2010, 08:34 AM

Beggers can't be choosers.

Storm_Tracker · 01-29-2010, 08:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Achmed's Wife Halimah

Beggers can't be choosers.

But i love jerking off

Storm_Tracker · 01-29-2010, 08:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Got Porn?

My mother in law stayed with us for 2 weeks after we had our first baby and she was a big help. You do need to set boundaries and determining the length of her stay may have been a good idea but you went about it the wrong way. You should have asked how long she wanted to stay for not tell her in a professional way that she is only welcome for 3 weeks. I can certainly see how that would offend her.

We asked my mother in law if she would take care of cooking, laundry, and grocery shopping while she stayed with us so we could concentrate on the baby. She was fine with that but I don't think she would have done so if we did not specifically ask her before she stayed with us.

LOL so you asked you M.I.N to stay over and serve you guys hands and foot while you concentrate on BABY

LOL

IN A PROFESSIONAL MANNER

of course I understand fully

VikingMan · 01-29-2010, 08:44 AM

Also I think even after 6 weeks of no sex with your wife you can expect this for a while.

Got Porn? · 01-29-2010, 08:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Storm_Tracker

The other day I was over the mom inlaws and I voiced my opinion stating she
can stay with us but no longer than 3 weeks I was very clear but forth coming about this.

I was not rude to her I stated the facts about privacy etc... I said this in a nice professional way.

Today my wife said " Ohhh I don't know if my mom wants to stay anymore cuz you dont want her " lol!!

At least my mother in law felt welcome when she came to help us.

01-28-2010, 09:03 PM	#2
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01-28-2010, 09:22 PM	#7
candyflip Carpe Visio Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: New York Posts: 43,061	My girl's mother died three weeks before the birth of our first child. I'd have killed to have her here for as long as she'd have wanted to stay. __________________ Spend you some brain. Email Me

01-29-2010, 02:47 AM	#11
VikingMan Exploiting human weakness Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: next to a salmon stream Posts: 6,518	You WANT you mother in law to stay with you after the baby is born for as long as possible if: 1. she makes you food 2. she cleans 3. does a really good job at #1 4. she changes diapers often (preferably both hers and the baby's) In other words, put that woman to WORK Last edited by VikingMan; 01-29-2010 at 02:52 AM..

01-29-2010, 07:55 AM	#16
Got Porn? Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Charlotte Posts: 1,264	My mother in law stayed with us for 2 weeks after we had our first baby and she was a big help. You do need to set boundaries and determining the length of her stay may have been a good idea but you went about it the wrong way. You should have asked how long she wanted to stay for not tell her in a professional way that she is only welcome for 3 weeks. I can certainly see how that would offend her. We asked my mother in law if she would take care of cooking, laundry, and grocery shopping while she stayed with us so we could concentrate on the baby. She was fine with that but I don't think she would have done so if we did not specifically ask her before she stayed with us. __________________ Demo Porn2Go's Plug-In Feeds 1st Month Free! No BW Fees! ICQ 303355427 [email protected] RIP TD

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01-28-2010, 08:54 PM	#1
Storm_Tracker Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 355	Should The Mother Inlaw Stay Over?? We are having our 1st baby within the next 2 weeks or so. My wife would like to have her mom over and stay with us approx 3 weeks until she gets into her daily routine. The other day I was over the mom inlaws and I voiced my opinion stating she can stay with us but no longer than 3 weeks I was very clear but forth coming about this. I was not rude to her I stated the facts about privacy etc... I said this in a nice professional way. Today my wife said " Ohhh I don't know if my mom wants to stay anymore cuz you dont want her " lol!! Was i wrong here people? I like my mom inlaw but at times she can be annoying always repeating the same stuff over and over and always wants to check out what your doing. Heck I can't even pound one out now when she is here I understand from my wife's point its our 1st baby and she needs help but does she need to stay past 3 weeks???? This is question ... PLEASE HELP WITH THIS.!! __________________ Top Dating Sponsors I use! http://datingfactory.com?refId=DFL-AF-3410 White label ( 65%) rev Amazing Great Ratios! http://affiliate.sexsearch.com/?ref=57448 High PPS! Good Ratios!

01-28-2010, 09:04 PM	#3
baddog So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: the beach, SoCal Posts: 107,089	If she can't take care of things on her own after three weeks she will never be able to. I liked my M-i-L and there is no way in hell I would let her stay with us for three weeks. I think she was there for a week. I don't understand why you think you can't have sex while she is there though. Do you live in a one-room apartment? If so, she can come visit, no sleep overs. edit Hold on, she isn't already there, is she?

01-28-2010, 09:23 PM	#8
Waddymelon So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: The Whitehouse Posts: 17,349	Well if she isnt there, you're not gonna be getting much sleep. And if she is there, well, then she is there. Man you're fucked either way.

01-29-2010, 07:11 AM	#13
Jensen Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Norway Posts: 3,790	I would take all the help I could get. What are you doing on GFY btw? Get some sleep, go see a movie, go to a restaurant, god knows when you can do that again with no babysitters etc to worry about.

01-29-2010, 08:34 AM	#21
Achmed's Wife Halimah Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 365	Beggers can't be choosers.

01-29-2010, 08:44 AM	#24
VikingMan Exploiting human weakness Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: next to a salmon stream Posts: 6,518	Also I think even after 6 weeks of no sex with your wife you can expect this for a while.