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Some Business Observations and Advice :)
I had some great conversations today with webmasters that sparked this post. Hope it has some value for you.
I know times are tough. Paysites have it harder than ever. Affiliates are hanging on trying to figure out how to survive. I know the industry went from being the greatest biz to being really really hard. I get that. Over the past few months I?ve talked with quite a few owners to see if there was a way to work together. My thinking in each and every case was the following "maybe with my experience i can help these guys make some more money.? I like the industry and I like the idea of getting back involved. I never once thought "hmmm I have to make $x amount to talk to these guys." I?ve always thought about business long term. Provide value long term and money will follow. What?s interesting is the response from almost everybody has been the same ?Hey Shap, I?d love to work together want to buy x% of my company?? or ?Shap I have a great idea want to invest $50k in it.? Some of the offers are well established businesses so I understand their approach but at the same time some of them are guys who don?t even have a site up and just want my money. When I ask if they?d like help instead of money the answer is no they just need the money and it will bring great riches to all of us. I?ll be honest I?m somewhat surprised that there has not been one existing business to approach me to ask about doing something together that did not involved me giving them my money first. When I started Twistys I launched with average non exclusive content. I basically got Jokersx, Matrix and Phoenix Content and loaded up the site. The content was weak. Our strength was our long term vision. Our goal was to do our best to provide our members with the best possible value for their dollar. As time went our content improved but we were never the ?BEST? content on the web. I?m the first to admit it. But the attention to detail and the level of caring we showed our members, models, photographers, and affiliates was the key to our success. We never worried about making money today. We focused on the long term. I always made sure everyone I did business with was taken care of before I was. My advice to you all is to take some time to look at your business and think about where you are today and where you?d like to take it in the next 12, 24, 36 months. Write out your vision. Make decisions based on where you want to go. Plan ahead and plot your course. If you are doing the right things then when things change you?ll be better positioned to react to them (in fact in most cases you?ll already be a step ahead). So many people fail to plan ahead and as a result when something changes (visa regs, google, etc) they are completely screwed. The industry is harder than ever but there is still a lot of money to be made in it but the key is to be focusing on the right things. If you look at the most successful companies around they are almost all thinking long term. They don?t take short cuts. They weren?t built overnight. They are where they are as a result of a lot of hard work and well calculated risks and moves. Think long term, provide long term value and you?ll have a much better business. |
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Nice to see you getting involved trying to make a difference. I respect that.
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Thanks for the advice
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I've always been a fan of the mantra "Do what you love and the money will follow". Just thought I'd quote it
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Why are you surprised? either you believe in the site/idea/product/etc or you don't? if you do, why would investing some $$ be a problem? you want the other guy to take all the risk, do all the work, while you sit there with no skin in the game, just giving some tips here and there?
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Nevermind,
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![]() That said... I'm not 100% sure to get back into this bizz and also not sure with or without a partner and also not sure which partner would be the best for me... depends on various things... but if you want to chat about it let me know... Anyway... I was approached once by someone who contacted me via the contact form of the paysite years ago which I had up back then. He said he had great concepts for paysites and wanted to meet. We met and indeed he had some good ideas. I was willing to invest in some of those ideas (he didn't have the money for that himself) and we would partner up on that.... but I canceled the whole thing after he told me that part of the deal would be that he would also become the co-owner (content and revenue) of the paysite which I allready had ![]() Some people are hilarious...
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I like insight and not taking other's money. There are so much to be learned and trolls ruin a lot of free advice.
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Can I return the advice? You made the easy money. We have all seen how easy it is to ride a huge growth wave. So why not look for another wave? I understand that you have a feel for how this game works but is that enough of an advantage to deal with all of the downside?
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I'd like to work with you on anything and I def don't need your money. I know what the next big thing is but I'm too stupid to take advantage of it myself. I have the dough and the connections, just not the brains.
I've asked about it here several times before but no viable responses yet. |
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I emailed you 2-3 years ago about idea to work on together, didn't involve your money. But not sure you ever received or read it as I didn't get reply. It's late for that now (requires tons of $$ to be in TOP) but never late to talk with an industry veteran and experienced person like you Shap. I am sure there are tons of jobs you can influence and help grown just by your expertise. Good advice you wrote today!
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I'll hit you up. It's crazy after all these years and being in the same city for some time that we've never met or even talked.
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![]() Still figuring that out. I like opening up the discussions because from things like this and the looking to buy thread it sparks ideas. There are some ways to still make good money in adult. It's not doing the same things that are being done that's for sure. |
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Hello Shap
I would like to ask how long haved you leave the industry ? how many Years ? month ? I ask this because i really Like my adult business but once i will be out.... i would not come back at all lol. Thanks
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That's the biggest of your issue right now, I think your stuck in the between. Are you scare of changing ? I mean doing something else completely ? Before jumping back on the biz i would think twice especially you seems to have a foot out the door already. But i feel you is like an addiction for some and a need to accomplish something for others. Thanks
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Most here will have moved to pushing traffic at Dating sites and cams. With a falling income. Because most are webmasters and unable to adapt in a way that 100,000 other webmasters can copy them. And there's the problem today. The days of most webmasters are numbered. The future is about entertaining people. If your site does little more than hoping some passing traffic will click on a link, you're going to suffer. Big free entertainment sites are making the real money. Provide value long term and money will follow. Like Google, Youtube, Xhamster, Facebook. |
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The problem for most here is their devotion to webmastering and traffic generation. That' worked in 2000. Today surfers demand more give it to them and they will stay, don't and they're gone.
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Was great to get some feedback from you. Hope you visit our little slack channel more often :D
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For someone such as myself, who has more resources and projects than he does time and the attention span to stay on top of it all, an admin level partner can be invaluable.
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Advice on how to change what they're doing and come up with the approach that's proven to work? Can either one do that? |
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@Shap -- always nice chatting with you on email. From memory lane to gardening, it's always a pleasant interaction in my day.
@Paul Markham -- just wondering, do you ever have anything positive to say or is your entire world negative and pessimistic?
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not sure if Shap has tried that already, but he should probably partner up with some company on "results based" basis, i.e. "I'll work with you for 6 months, when within 6 months your income improves by XX, I get XXXX, if not I get nothing"... under that scenario I'm sure there would be way more takers...
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Partner? Doubt it. His current lack of any business or otherwise meaningful affiliation (despite numerous attempts to jump right back in after the buyout) should tell you something of what he has to offer (not much). Reading his threads over these years gives me a clear idea of what he's after: trying out something new without risking his own money (i.e. on someone elses expense). If you're up for it - got right ahead, it will be interesting to watch. |
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The ones who contacted me about partnerships in the past were all pretty honest and real and no one promised golden rivers. You keep telling people you can't get rich with paysites... Well... let's not forget this Paul... Who says people starting up paysites in 2016 expect to get rich? Maybe they want to do something they are passionate about on a day to day basis. What's wrong with doing what you like daily... far from getting rich, but happy and happy with a decent income. That's still better than being exploited and ass raped by the Walmart's of this world.
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I'll send you an email...
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SHAP: Let me lay out for you the reason why no one has taken you up on your many offers of "help" (including me): Instead of having any skin in the game (money) you want to give your sage advice. Great! So a Program approaches you and says, "I need another 100K hits a day and based on my conversion ratios and experience we would kill it." You: "OK, do X,Y and Z." Program: "But if I do that it will take me x number of months/years to organically build those traffic sources. If you pony up 50K we can get those traffic sources built in a few months and jump-start this thing. If it's going to take me years to build something myself what do I need you for?" You: "Um..." Get it? Your advice is useful ONLY if it is actionable. If the Program has to do it all by themselves (invest their own resources) guess what? We don't need your advice. LOL Sorry man but those are the realities. Put up or shut up. ![]()
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Very good advice Shap--especially about planning ahead.
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my take is that most of the ideas you were pitched were shit. money is cheap these days. if the idea is good, money will find its way to it, even in adult. so if they are asking for money, is cause the project is weak. which is kind of sad because i think your input would be so much more valuable that the $$$ you would put.
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Tubes dominate the industry by giving away what we once sold. Cams are changing and the positive thing now is models don't need to be tied up in a studio, they can work from home. They don't even need affiliates as much as they did. In the future models will be making a lot more, affiliates a lot less. Dating is also undergoing a change, apps like Tinder are going to take even bigger chunks out of that market. |
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