Do you like your significant other's family? - GoFuckYourself.com

candyflip · 09-07-2009, 08:11 PM

Simple question. Not so simple to answer.

At this point I am indifferent. I can't not like them as they're my kids' family too, but I can't really say that I do at the same time.

You?

Twig · 09-07-2009, 08:12 PM

very much

epitome · 09-07-2009, 08:16 PM

They're awesome. Couldn't ask for better. They treat me like their own and vice versa.

candyflip · 09-07-2009, 08:19 PM

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Originally Posted by epitome

They're awesome. Couldn't ask for better. They treat me like their own and vice versa.

Mine treat my girl as such. So perhaps my expectations for her family are too high and they will never measure up.

$5 submissions · 09-07-2009, 08:20 PM

I love them. They are family.

JA$ON · 09-07-2009, 08:21 PM

used to have issues (nothing major) with them. We are all quite pig headed

but the more grandkids we give them....and the closer they get to their "final years", the more we all realized that its not worth fighting over little things. The last few yrs have been outstanding

Deej · 09-07-2009, 08:22 PM

pretty much lunatics...

candyflip · 09-07-2009, 08:29 PM

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Originally Posted by JA$ON

used to have issues (nothing major) with them. We are all quite pig headed

but the more grandkids we give them....and the closer they get to their "final years", the more we all realized that its not worth fighting over little things. The last few yrs have been outstanding

So there might still be a chance. But we did just bring out or 2 month old son for the first time and that didn't seem to help matters.

I'm talking the whole family too. Not just Mom and Dad. I loved her Mom, but she passed away 18 months ago.

candyflip · 09-07-2009, 08:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Deej

pretty much lunatics...

The good or bad kind?

Barefootsies · 09-07-2009, 08:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Deej

pretty much lunatics...

Deej · 09-07-2009, 08:41 PM

Well the father is ok... hes actually sane and a nice guy, so I take half of it back...

the mother is 100% certified bat shit crazy...

I could tell you stories that make you go WTF?!?!?

epitome · 09-07-2009, 08:45 PM

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Originally Posted by candyflip

Mine treat my girl as such. So perhaps my expectations for her family are too high and they will never measure up.

Could just be that you have a more awesome family.

baddog · 09-07-2009, 08:45 PM

The entire family? I don't even like my entire family.

candyflip · 09-07-2009, 08:50 PM

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Originally Posted by epitome

Could just be that you have a more awesome family.

I don't dare say that. I'm sleeping in a guest room tonight as a result of of her and I having this discussion on a 6 hour drive back from a weekend spending time with hers.

LiveDose · 09-07-2009, 08:51 PM

We have grown to like eachother. It has been a long and bumpy road...

candyflip · 09-07-2009, 08:52 PM

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Originally Posted by baddog

The entire family? I don't even like my entire family.

Let's say the parents and siblings.

baddog · 09-07-2009, 09:01 PM

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Originally Posted by candyflip

Let's say the parents and siblings.

I like her dad and one of her sisters.

ronaldo · 09-07-2009, 09:17 PM

My father-in-law was an awesome guy. The mother-in-law is a little bit of a pita. Attention seeker, name dropper, everything I despise in people. Deep down though she's a good person. My big problem with her these days is when she visits for a week and insists on walking around in her panties. Not attractive, and not cool. I'm already old enough that it takes longer than it should to get it up, but when she does that, I'm out for a good week.

Rochard · 09-07-2009, 09:33 PM

Funny you should ask; I just spent the weekend in SoCal with my in-laws and the entire extended family. Yeah, I like them. Very close knit family with great family values, and they are funny too.

"Dad" is kind of sad. He has health problems and instead of taking care of himself he's running himself into the ground.

Spunky · 09-07-2009, 09:40 PM

We tolerate each other

candyflip · 09-07-2009, 09:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Rochard

Funny you should ask; I just spent the weekend in SoCal with my in-laws and the entire extended family. Yeah, I like them. Very close knit family with great family values, and they are funny too.

"Dad" is kind of sad. He has health problems and instead of taking care of himself he's running himself into the ground.

I really opened up a can or worms discussing it here at home.

We did the same. Huge campout at her parents, even my family made the trek.

mmcfadden · 09-07-2009, 09:45 PM

hated them... it started where my wife planned every holiday with her parents. Loved her parents... only her parents. I grew a little from my own and went to every fuckin holiday, celebration with the bitches parents.

They love themselves and nobody else. They LOVED me... I mean... when I met my ex wife she weighed 85 pounds and 5'8... I started her eating again so her parents loved me for that.

Loved me up until the bitch fucked another guy and got pregnant and told her parents that I was beating her and abusive. Now they hate me... LOVE her bastard child.

Love her other child... Love the dick that fucked my wife...

LOL... ohhhh... inlaws are great!! Nah... I'll just stick with my family who might not be so cool but actually care about their loved ones AND even others...

Phallus Fondue · 09-08-2009, 01:49 AM

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Originally Posted by mmcfadden

hated them... it started where my wife planned every holiday with her parents. Loved her parents... only her parents. I grew a little from my own and went to every fuckin holiday, celebration with the bitches parents.

They love themselves and nobody else. They LOVED me... I mean... when I met my ex wife she weighed 85 pounds and 5'8... I started her eating again so her parents loved me for that.

Loved me up until the bitch fucked another guy and got pregnant and told her parents that I was beating her and abusive. Now they hate me... LOVE her bastard child.

Love her other child... Love the dick that fucked my wife...

LOL... ohhhh... inlaws are great!! Nah... I'll just stick with my family who might not be so cool but actually care about their loved ones AND even others...

sounds more like an ex wife issue and not an inlaw issue. i would expect most any family tto side with blood in a divorce.

i get along great with most of mine. there are a few i can not stand but they would not know it..

Sarah_Jayne · 09-08-2009, 03:45 AM

He doesn't have any siblings and his parents are fine. So, yes.

I am not the biggest fan of my sister's husband but she loves him and he isn't a bad person. Plus, they are having a kid soon and I would NEVER want the child to get any feeling of a rift between family members.

I wouldn't be thrilled about my other half talking down my family at all. So, I wouldn't do that to him even if I didn't like his parents. Luckily, I do.

rayadp05 · 09-08-2009, 04:31 AM

Unfortunately, my wifes mother and father both passed away before we were married so I never really got to know them. However, I get along just fine my wifes two daughters. They are my stepkids as my wife was previously married to another man many years ago.

Me and the girls hang out and party all of the time. My stepdaughters are 19 years old and 24 years old. We have an awesome relationship with one another. Hell, one of the girls are even on my site. The other one really wants to be on the site too but her boyfriend will not allow it. But yeah, I get along just fine with my significant others family.

CaptainHowdy · 09-08-2009, 04:38 AM

I don't know my relative's significant others...

v4 media · 09-08-2009, 05:54 AM

My Mother in law loves me cause I make her lasagna and cheesecakes.

Vicious_B · 09-08-2009, 05:57 AM

My future in laws are amazing. Both of my parents passed away before I met my fiance and his parents have always accepted me and treat me like their own. My fiance still has his grandparents, great grandmother on his mom's side and his grandmother on his dad's side and they have all been great to me and my kids.

SGS · 09-08-2009, 05:57 AM

Yes, very much.

Fletch XXX · 09-08-2009, 06:04 AM

I used to like my girls family, then they got into medical marijuana biz, now I fucking love em.

LOL

candyflip · 09-08-2009, 06:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Fletch XXX

I used to like my girls family, then they got into medical marijuana biz, now I fucking love em.

LOL

See these folks don't approve of "that shit". I have to sneak a quickie from a one hitter out behind one of the barns. Yet not once the entire weekend could you catch any of them with out a cigarette, cigar, beer or mixed drink in their hand...there were 6 HUGE bottles of Jack that got polished off.

Fletch XXX · 09-08-2009, 06:37 AM

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Originally Posted by candyflip

See these folks don't approve of "that shit". I have to sneak a quickie from a one hitter out behind one of the barns. Yet not once the entire weekend could you catch any of them with out a cigarette, cigar, beer or mixed drink in their hand...there were 6 HUGE bottles of Jack that got polished off.

Yeah I cant imagine dealing with that, although I have had to in the past, when it comes to my wifes family, Ive smoked with her dad, uncle, sister, cousins, you name it, they all cali folk and they all toke lol

her uncle now runs medical marijuana clinic and has hooked even her dad up with a card lol all legal tokers now

mmcfadden · 09-08-2009, 08:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Phallus Fondue

sounds more like an ex wife issue and not an inlaw issue. i would expect most any family tto side with blood in a divorce.

i get along great with most of mine. there are a few i can not stand but they would not know it..

yeah... it is an ex-wife issue. but it was an inlaw issue as well...

my life is full of love right now and I still love to hate them a little. I spent close to 100k on the divorce, legal fees etc. and I can use a little hate to fill that void... ya know

if they ain't blood... they will not stick through thick and thin!

Point is... love your "significant others" family! be nice, have fun, maybe even have the greatest friends in the world you didn't otherwise know... but when push comes to shove... keep a little hate for them on the backburner cuz ya never know when you might need it

CYF · 09-08-2009, 08:39 PM

The girl I'm dating has a nice family, 2 of her cousins are around our age and live close, and we get together with them and party sometimes. Even her parents are pretty cool, but I haven't met the whole extended family yet

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Deej I make pixels work Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: I live here... Posts: 24,386	Well the father is ok... hes actually sane and a nice guy, so I take half of it back... the mother is 100% certified bat shit crazy... I could tell you stories that make you go WTF?!?!? __________________ Deej's Designs n' What Not Hit me up for Design, CSS & Photo Retouching Icq#30096880 Last edited by Deej; 09-07-2009 at 08:42 PM..

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epitome So Fucking Lame Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: St. Petersburg, FL Posts: 12,156	They're awesome. Couldn't ask for better. They treat me like their own and vice versa.

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JA$ON Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: I'm from Downtown....Im from Mitch & Murry Posts: 1,329	used to have issues (nothing major) with them. We are all quite pig headed but the more grandkids we give them....and the closer they get to their "final years", the more we all realized that its not worth fighting over little things. The last few yrs have been outstanding

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baddog So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: the beach, SoCal Posts: 107,089	The entire family? I don't even like my entire family.

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ronaldo Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: ICQ#: 272000271 Posts: 5,475	My father-in-law was an awesome guy. The mother-in-law is a little bit of a pita. Attention seeker, name dropper, everything I despise in people. Deep down though she's a good person. My big problem with her these days is when she visits for a week and insists on walking around in her panties. Not attractive, and not cool. I'm already old enough that it takes longer than it should to get it up, but when she does that, I'm out for a good week.

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Rochard Jägermeister Test Pilot Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: NORCAL Posts: 74,324	Funny you should ask; I just spent the weekend in SoCal with my in-laws and the entire extended family. Yeah, I like them. Very close knit family with great family values, and they are funny too. "Dad" is kind of sad. He has health problems and instead of taking care of himself he's running himself into the ground. __________________ “The choice is no longer between right or left. The choice is between normal and crazy.” - Sarah Huckabee Sanders YNOT MAIL \| THE BEST ADULT MAILING SOLUTION

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mmcfadden So Fucking Banned Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: philly Posts: 5,099	hated them... it started where my wife planned every holiday with her parents. Loved her parents... only her parents. I grew a little from my own and went to every fuckin holiday, celebration with the bitches parents. They love themselves and nobody else. They LOVED me... I mean... when I met my ex wife she weighed 85 pounds and 5'8... I started her eating again so her parents loved me for that. Loved me up until the bitch fucked another guy and got pregnant and told her parents that I was beating her and abusive. Now they hate me... LOVE her bastard child. Love her other child... Love the dick that fucked my wife... LOL... ohhhh... inlaws are great!! Nah... I'll just stick with my family who might not be so cool but actually care about their loved ones AND even others...

09-08-2009, 03:45 AM	#24
Sarah_Jayne Now with more Jayne Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 40,077	He doesn't have any siblings and his parents are fine. So, yes. I am not the biggest fan of my sister's husband but she loves him and he isn't a bad person. Plus, they are having a kid soon and I would NEVER want the child to get any feeling of a rift between family members. I wouldn't be thrilled about my other half talking down my family at all. So, I wouldn't do that to him even if I didn't like his parents. Luckily, I do.

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rayadp05 TRUEAMATEURMODELS.COM Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: TrueAmateurModels.com Posts: 4,187	Unfortunately, my wifes mother and father both passed away before we were married so I never really got to know them. However, I get along just fine my wifes two daughters. They are my stepkids as my wife was previously married to another man many years ago. Me and the girls hang out and party all of the time. My stepdaughters are 19 years old and 24 years old. We have an awesome relationship with one another. Hell, one of the girls are even on my site. The other one really wants to be on the site too but her boyfriend will not allow it. But yeah, I get along just fine with my significant others family. __________________ TrueAmateurModels.com Twitter TrueAmateurModels.com Affiliate Program

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v4 media Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Spain Posts: 2,934	My Mother in law loves me cause I make her lasagna and cheesecakes.

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Vicious_B Confirmed User Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 2,564	My future in laws are amazing. Both of my parents passed away before I met my fiance and his parents have always accepted me and treat me like their own. My fiance still has his grandparents, great grandmother on his mom's side and his grandmother on his dad's side and they have all been great to me and my kids. __________________ ICQ# 419 775 271

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CYF Coupon Guru Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Minneapolis Posts: 10,973	The girl I'm dating has a nice family, 2 of her cousins are around our age and live close, and we get together with them and party sometimes. Even her parents are pretty cool, but I haven't met the whole extended family yet __________________ Webmaster Coupons Coupons and discounts for hosting, domains, SSL Certs, and more! AmeriNOC Coupons \| Certified Hosting Coupons \| Hosting Coupons \| Domain Name Coupons